The holidays are all about traditions. The fancy platter for the Thanksgiving turkey that came from your grandmother. Your favorite aunt’s crispy latkes. The ornaments the kids made. Partying with friends on New Year’s Eve.

But this year has been different. This cruel year made us leave behind our traditions, temporarily, we hope. Here are a few things that didn’t happen this year:

Chanticleer did not sing Biebl’s “Ave Maria.” The Symphony Chorus didn’t present “Messiah” at Davies. Our brothers across the bay won’t be “Home for the Holidays” at the Castro. The Interfaith Gospel Choir didn’t join the “Break Bread” concert at the Paramount, because it didn’t happen. Neither did your church choir’s annual Christmas concert. And, of course, the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus couldn’t perform the holiday concerts that have been a tradition with us, and with you, for more than 20 years. 

To the singers of the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus— and to all the singers in all the choruses— this is a profound loss. Singing is at the heart of who we are, and nothing can take its place. Our highest hope is that our organizations can survive this challenging year to sing for you again. We don’t know yet when that will be, but we hope and pray that we won’t have to endure another Christmas without carols. 

In the meantime we’ve been trying to stay busy. Last month we released a Virtual Choir video, debuting a song that was written for us by our own Wally Bee. We’re delighted to be able to send you a link to it below, with our sincere wishes for a joyous new year. We hope it puts a smile on your face! 

You can play your part in keeping us afloat through these stormy seas. Every contribution matters! Please consider the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus for your year-end donations. From our family to yours, thank you!

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