Voices from our Chorus

Fred Rogers Reflects on His OaklandGMC Journey

By June Kamerling

I had the huge pleasure of chatting with chorus member Fred Rogers, who has had an extremely vibrant and colorful life, as you will soon see.

First question I asked Fred: “How did you find OaklandGMC?”

“I had been observing the chorus online for years when I moved to the East Bay. I always thought ‘That’s something I’d like to do’, but never made that move.”

“My sister said, ‘You’re the only one in the family who can carry a tune. Why are you not singing?’ And I asked myself that same question. Sadly, my sister was succumbing to Alzheimer's, and most of my time was taken up as her caregiver. I needed a break from taking care of her…. This would be the right time.”

“I responded to an online ‘we have auditions tonight’ invitation. That’s how I joined. That same month, my sister passed away. She never got to come to a concert, but her spirit got me in the door. That was 2016. Billy Sauerland was just starting as our director then. It was also the year of GALA in Denver.”

“So, I joined the chorus in February, and by July, I was in Denver singing at GALA. I had not sung since freshman year of college at Boston University.”

“It has been a great time and learning experience. I have a great ear, and with the rehearsal tracks I can easily learn the music”.

Excitedly, I said, “Fred, tell me about your colorful background.”

“That is probably the most interesting part of my existence. There are so many parallels between that time and this time of my life. I took the bold move of opening a bar/restaurant on 18th and Castro in San Francisco.”

“I was the proprietor of “Elephant Walk” opening in November 1974. I was 27! It was an eye-opening experience. I had the business for 11 years. All were welcome. We were intentionally inclusive. We had local families, gay and straight patrons, and employees. It was a welcoming meeting place for the local community.”

“That was a time of great chaos and upheaval, as well as a bringing together of the gay community in the Castro. We had the Harvey Milk assassination, the Dan White verdict, which brought about riots and police brutality, the Briggs initiative, Anita Bryant in Florida, lots of homophobia, and the AIDS epidemic…so many things we fought back then are rearing their ugly heads now.”

“One of my employees was one of the first AIDS victims in the 80’s. I didn’t own the building where Elephant Walk was located. The AIDS epidemic put a damper on my business. The writing on the wall was saying it was time to close my business, after 11 years”.

J- “What did you do after you sold the bar?”

“My partner, at the time, opened his own marketing consulting firm in our house, and I became office manager. I did interviews for him about chip manufacturing–which I knew nothing about. I was his gopher, rushing marketing materials around San Francisco. It was interesting, but I was in the house all the time…I was not used to that. I felt cut off from the world.”

“I went back to hotel management. I was born to be in customer service. Before I knew it, we moved to Atlanta, and we were there for 8 years. It was a culture shock, to say the least. I’m originally from Philadelphia. Interestingly, Steve Smith [fellow Baritone] and I grew up 10 miles from each other, and we’d never met till OaklandGMC”.

J-“What happened when you came back from Atlanta?”

“I sold my house in SF. Neil, my partner at the time, and I decided to resettle in the East Bay. It was way more affordable, had less traffic, and better proximity to my sister in Oakland Hills. Then it took another 20 years to join the chorus.”Lawrence Turner was my buddy and mentor as well as President of the OaklandGMC Board of Directors (called Oakland East Bay Gay Men’s Chorus at that time). I remember him saying, ‘Don’t be nervous, it’s a love bubble’ as we walked out onto the big stage in Denver at 2016 GALA.”

J-”How have you seen the chorus change over the years?”

“I asked Denis Whitaker, ‘What can I do to be involved?’ He laughed…‘Would you be interested in running for the board?’ So I found myself very quickly head of production and on the board.”

“I was retired at the time, so I had time to learn the ropes. I’ve seen it grow so beautifully organizationally. The board is so much more cohesive. We’re following a strategic plan. We have a part-time Executive Director. We’re financially able to do all of that. We’re in a much better space….in a period of like 8 years. Now that I’ve stepped down from the board and production committee, I’m finding other things I can do using my past experience.” (Note: Since the completion of this interview, Fred has rejoined the Board of Directors.)

J-”What direction would you like to see us take from here?”

“I think our outreach is so important. We tend to stay in our comfort zone, but I think we need to broaden our outreach in the community. It’s great we have our Executive Director, John Stevens, with us now to help us grow and reach out further. I’d like to see us branch out and go to the North Bay, Santa Rosa, not just stay in the immediate Bay area. I see us as a growing community. We have such a loyal fan base. I see the same names in ticket sales season after season.”

J-”Anything else you want to tell me?”

“I’m astounded by the musicality of many of my peers. I wish I could go back in time and practice my music lessons. In a future life, I’d love to be a jazz singer. I love all the oldies…the female jazz singers, Ella, Sara, Peggy Lee, etcetera, and Old Frank….I love that music. We sang with a big band once….It was so much fun.”

J-”Do you want to see more diversity in the kind of music we sing?”

“Yes, sure, but that’s totally up to the Artistic Director. We’re on stable ground to be growing. It’s about the unit…the group.”

J-“One last question…What is your music background?”

“Just singing in chorus and acting/drama club. I don’t play any instruments. I wish I could sit down at the piano, but….not this life? My sister majored in modern dance at Sarah Lawrence. Mother was an amateur painter and a tap dancer. Dad was an engineer. My ‘Auntie Mame’ was our musical accompanist at family gatherings on

our upright piano.”

J- For a full account of Elephant Walk and it’s community click on the link below.

https://thecastro.net/fred-rogers-firsthand-account/

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By June Kamerling Welcome to Aaron Hughes, recent-ish chorus member and our new Marketing Committee Chair. Aaron took over being chair of the chorus PR Marketing Committee when our former fearless Leader Denis Whitaker moved to Ohio last summer. Aaron comes to the marketing committee with loads of background in group management and organization. As I ask everyone I interview this first question, I asked Aaron as well….”How did you find OGMC”? AH: “It was just post pandemic, I was searching for the next thing I wanted to do. I did a google search and found that OGMC was having auditions. I reached out through a meet up group and got no response. I persevered and I later found out about the summer Sondheim Concert (this was summer 2022) Auditions and an open rehearsal were coming up. I went to the rehearsal to check it out and see what it’s like. I loved the feeling of this East Bay LGBTQ chorus community. I auditioned….and I was in. I even got a solo, the first concert as King George in the Hamilton song, “You’ll Be Back”. I asked, “What is your musical background?” AH: “In my earlier days I sang in a lot of chorus’s as a boy. I also played a bunch of instruments, but my true love was musical theater. My under grad is musical theater. I performed a lot in Australia, where I’m from. In my 20’s, I was passionate about Sondheim. I loved the PBS specials on the various Sondheim shows….(I’d watch in between other musical theater breaks). I got to see Company on Broadway the year Patty Lupone was in it”. J: “Would you talk about your sense of the chorus and how you got involved with PR Marketing?” AH: “Going into the chorus was my first opportunity to do something that was purely me. I was hugely nervous. I hadn’t done anything like this in 8 or 9 years. I felt like a deer in headlights. However, everyone was so friendly and welcoming, the chorus is where I found my “family”. I didn’t expect such an embrace of new people and non cliquey feeling as I’ve found in other chorus’s. It blew my expectation… having women and trans people in the chorus, being pronoun specific and respectful. There was so much care and attention to Covid policies. This was a different experience than other LGBTQ organizations I’ve been involved with. People were genuine, the music was wonderful and the organization seemed solid and like something I would like to be involved with. I think we don’t toot our own horn enough about how unique we are as an LGBTQ chorus”. J: “ What got you into being head of marketing- what’s your general sense of the structure of the chorus, aside from singing?” AH: “As I got more into the ‘behind the scenes’ of musical theater, I became a bit disillusioned and burned out so I stepped away for a while. I got a Master’s degree in Switzerland and travelled the world. Career-wise, I’m a chameleon. I was involved in mortgage, then hospitality for many years… now I have my own marketing firm. Within a year I’ve seen a massive arc in this chorus which lead me to wanting to be PR marketing chair. I entered the chorus at a seminal point of shift. The chorus came back after pandemic. Elements were shifting with-in leadership. There is an extraordinary amount of work that happens behind the scenes to have us where we are today. It’s pretty epic…..We’re having sold out shows back to back!! This is because of all the people in leadership, the strong foundation that has evolved. When it comes to Marketing and PR, I tend to get passionate for the WHY… Why do you want to do this as an organization? What’s the story? I started seeing challenges… an organization coming into transition. Some of the software systems we’ve utilized need to change and grow so that we can more clearly tell our story. So that we can be more visible in the community. Technology has changed so much over the years. 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Seth Frost & Kelvin Ellis Interview with June Kamerling

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By June Kamerling With our upcoming spring concert, “True Colors,” a few weeks away I interviewed Seth Frost and Kelvin Ellis, two baritones in Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus. They both also sing with New Voices Bay Area Trans, Intersex and Genderqueer Chorus, who will be joining OGMC for a few songs. I asked Seth first, “How did you find OGMC, and what was the chorus like when you first joined?” “My former voice teacher Eli Conley ( www.eliconley.com ) told me about OGMC. He knew Billy Sauerland, our previous director before Ben, because Billy did his dissertation on voice education for trans people and Eli is passionate about teaching trans singers. That was in summer 2018, so I’ve been in OGMC for roughly 10 seasons. I was nervous at first because I hadn’t been a part of a queer chorus before, but everyone was really friendly and welcoming. My first concert was the summer show, kind of Disney-esque. Some of the members were auditioning for small ensembles, and doing all this cool singing/dancing and there were costumes. It was pretty amazing and really fun. Most memorable was Billy announcing that there would be a giant evil Donald Trump head during the theme song from ‘Little Shop of Horrors’. I thought he was kidding. He wasn’t.” Seth moved to the Bay Area in 2015 from Lawrence, Kansas. He took piano lessons as a child, and later sang in the civic choir in his home town. He didn’t have traditional voice lessons until he started with Eli. Seth’s mom had played clarinet in high school, so Seth followed suit, but eventually quit band because it conflicted with the Latin class he wanted to take (“I was the wrong kind of nerd for marching band”). Next I talked to Kelvin, one of the newer members of OGMC. “I found my way to OGMC in January 2022, through Seth. I grew up in a family of singers and musicians, and I was interested in singing but not at all confident in my voice. I did take piano. Around 2012 I took my first taiko drumming class and loved it. In 2018, after coming out, I found a group called Queer Taiko which I still perform with periodically ( taikoandcommunity.org/queertaiko ). [Seth says he’s very good.] We do some vocalizing, like shouting words and sounds, and the teacher was very encouraging, so that kind of unlocked my voice finally. Then in 2020, a friend-of-a-friend recommended ‘New Voices.’ I joined on Zoom during lockdown, and it was like part chorus, part support group. When we resumed rehearsing in person, I met Seth. We sat next to each other, and then started carpooling from the East Bay, and… On one of our first dates, Seth was gushing about this other chorus he was in (and on the board of). I was nervous but it sounded super fun and I wanted to finally get into singing. OGMC has been a blast. I feel like I’m finally in the right place at the right time.” About New Voices New Voices Bay Area Trans, Intersex and Gender Queer Chorus will be joining Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus in our April 15 th and 16 th concerts “True Colors”. New Voices Bay Area TIGQ chorus is run like a (free!) tuition class through San Francisco Community Music Center. Here is a little about them, including a socially-distanced recording made for the 2021 Billboard Music Awards: https://ybgfestival.org/event/new-voices-bay-area-tigq-chorus/ They’ve been around since 2018 and sing about 4-5 engagements a year. The chorus is comprised of about 30 men, women and a wide variety of people with non-binary gender identities. Rather than SATB, the voice categories are numbered as 1, 2, 3, 4. Singers are able to move from one part to another as they feel comfortable, and there are often in-between parts, “1.5, 3.5” etc. The director is Reuben Zellman, one of the first openly trans rabbis in the country ( https://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reuben_Zellman ). “How did it come to be that we’re singing together?” Seth has been telling each group about the other for a while, trying to be a bridge between the two. Previous director Billy was especially aware of trans issues in the singing community and worked hard to make the chorus a trans-friendly place. When Billy left, Seth made it his job to bridge the two choruses. Brian Tognotti, on the artistic committee of OGMC, asked Seth who to talk to, and Seth got him in touch with Reuben. In our time talking, we discovered that Kelvin’s parents were in The Berkeley Broadway Singers chorus with me many years ago (small world).

Tribute from OGMC to Curtis Marsh

March 13, 2023

By Steve Smith, Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus Board of Directors Frequently the brightest spot in anyone’s day is the person who looks after their hair. In those intimate conversations, we trust that person with news, opinions, and world-problem-solving. During the pandemic, Curtis Marsh became one of those pilgrims who made house calls to keep people presentable, sane, and somewhat connected to other humans. Imagine the brightest of bright spots once a month outside on the little deck at my place! We sang together in the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus, which gives voice through song to a community where everyone matters. When Curtis joined in 2019, we had just been invited to work with the Oakland Symphony Chorus to perform Beethoven pieces with Emmanuel Ax under Michael Morgan’s direction. As an accomplished Tenor, Curtis was thrilled with the opportunity and plunged into performance mode. An amazingly rewarding cooperative experience was the result. Curtis was born to perform and to delight audiences. He brought style and verve to every event, large and small. While everyone was scrambling to make things work during the pandemic, Curtis was one of our group of 70 or so who could not safely sing inside with large groups of people, so he and I kept up through the monthly haircut housecalls. A favorite set of conversations about travel and keeping in touch with friends and family despite every obstacle were Curtis’ grand plans for his High School Reunion to be held this past summer back in Iowa. Although some classmates apparently proposed a fairly modest one-evening event, Curtis was determined to expand the scope and see to it that a 3-day party was in order. Sending wigs and gowns ahead, Curtis arranged an evening for all at Roederer’s Pit Stop in Burlington IA. I can only imagine the sheer delight he created for all those folks he used to know. His murder Saturday is all about shock and horror. How much hate can there be lurking in the soul of some other person in a sweet Oakland neighborhood where Curtis had lived among friends for 15 years? The life force of this man was a gift deserving love, gratitude, and applause. We salute Curtis and will rely upon law enforcement in Oakland to apprehend his killer and to prevent that evil from continuing in our community. With love from the Oakland Gay Men’s Chorus.